Tips For Coping With Bedwetting

Tips For Coping With Bedwetting

Bedwetting can be an incredibly stressful and overwhelming time for parents and even more stressful and embarrassing for children struggling with it. In addition, it's a time of confusion as a parent because it can be something that occurs years after you've already successfully potty trained your child. But it's good to know right away that your child isn't alone. It's quite a common thing and something that more than 5 million children struggle with on a daily basis.


It's not something that "runs in the family," and while it's more common for boys, it can happen to any child. In this blog, we will discuss some of the most essential tips for parents struggling to find their way through coping with bedwetting and discuss how leak-proof purchasing underwear for your child can prevent them from feeling embarrassed and even build confidence.


Here are our top tips for coping with bedwetting.


Always Be Supportive

There's no mistaking that bedwetting is an incredibly embarrassing event for your child. And it's essential to their wellbeing that you take an understanding and supportive approach to help them cope and understand where their struggles with wetting the bed are coming from. Don't point blame at your child for something that they're trying to control but can't. Take time to explain to your child that they're not the only child their age going through this trying time. Simply change their sheets, help them get cleaned up, and don't make a huge deal about the situation but rather show them how supportive of them you are.


Be Proactive

One of the best ways you can help prevent bedwetting with your child is to be proactive in your approach. Start by taking small steps and adjustments to their nightly routine. For instance, you can keep your child from drinking too much as it gets closer to bedtime. Another thing you can try is to build bathroom trips into their bedtime routine. Taking a proactive approach to the entire situation can help make things easier for your child and build confidence that they can get through this experience.


Find Ways To Reward Them

As you're working with your child through bedwetting, positive reinforcement is a great way to help them build their confidence. When they have a dry night, find ways to reward them. When they start making strides and having multiple dry nights in a row, you can add other rewards like ice cream or candy. Or even more time with you the next night watching their favorite TV show or something. Remember that even though your child cannot help wetting the bed, it's still essential for them to understand that there may be a reward for having a dry night.


Don't Wake Up Your Child During The Night.

Many parents think that they can stop the bedwetting and needing to constantly clean the sheets by waking their child during the night to go to the bathroom. However, this disrupts their sleeping cycle, which can adversely affect their bedwetting because it's causing more stress on both you and your child. Waking your child during the night also prevents them from being able to recognize their need to urinate while they're sleeping naturally. You may feel like this is a solution that can work, but it isn't sustainable to help your child with bladder training.


Be Sure To Keep Your Doctor Visits

When your child starts exhibiting a pattern of wetting the bed, you may feel like you have to listen to the advice of other parents and friends not to worry about it. However, bedwetting may actually be a sign of a more significant health concern. Especially if your child struggles with stress and anxiety, adding bedwetting to the equation can be incredibly difficult to cope with for both you and them. There are many children that will eventually just outgrow this condition, but nocturnal bedwetting can actually be caused by many other underlying medical conditions, including:

  • Diabetes
  • Sleep Apnea
  • Stress or Anxiety
  • Urinary Tract Infections (UTIs)
  • Chronic Constipation

Regardless of whether you've been helping your child work through struggles with bedwetting for a month or it's just started, keep these tips in mind for your child.


And when you need a little extra support, Tony & Ava's absorbent underwear is designed to provide leak-proof protection so they can sleep at night without having to stress about needing to change the sheets in the morning. In addition, they are discreet comfortable and aid against stains, odors, and embarrassment. 

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